Wednesday 10 December 2014

Not just victims

Bullying affects alot of people. It can affect them with depresision witch can lead to suicide et caan also cause alot of eating disroders and health problems. But did you know that bullies also get affected. Most of the time bullying is caused by people who have their own familly issues or insecuritys and jealousy,  But also did you ever hear the saying practice makes perfect. So its like the more you bully someone the more you do it and its harder to stop Eventually it gets worse and you dont even realise. Bullying can lead someone into doing really bad things like drugs , alchool and commiting crimes. And that can also affect you'r future.if you commit crimes and get caught for it that can also ruin you'r future. It would be 100 times harder to find a job because no one woud want someone who treats others badly and is in to the wrong things ( drugs alchool ). Bullying can lead you into that kinda stuff because when you bully others you think you'r above everyone and you'r confidence boost and you suddenly dont care about what you or anyone else do, so thats how someone can get involved in things like that , they think their cool and they thiink all those things are cool .Bullying is an enormous problem, and we must all do our part to impact it. I

 Always remember "Little things can make a big difference. Simple and genuine gestures, such as regularly greeting students, talking to students, and addressing students by name, help to make students feel connected." 
This quote is really important because its a verry simple quote and its a verry simple wau to prevent bullying for everyone to understand.
I beleive that no one is born evil i beleive everyone is born as angels and change because of things that happen in their life but in my opinion i dont think its right for them to take it out of innocent people. i Beleive that if you have familly problems you shoukd talk to someone about it not take it out on other people . 
Bullies:

There are alot of consequences for victims of bullying . For example depression ,suicide and way more. But did you also know there are consequences for the people causing the bullying . Bullying is a sign of violence and as they get older that violence gets way more intense and make you do really bad things without even noticing,  Its like the saying parctice makes perfect . The more you do things the better you get so if someone is always bullying other poeple than they will get better at it, and never know when to stop. You can compare bullying to like a drug. It affects you and everyione else aroud you and its verry hard to quit once you start.How parents choose to raise their children has a large impact on whether a child becomes a bully as well as how a child deals with bullies.  Alot of people say most kids who are bullies become who they are because of parental lack 0f controle, poor role models and lack of warmth . Those things can really affect children mentally witch causes them to do things for attention when its the wrong attention there seeking .  When there's bad parenting involved the child obviously takes after that.  Teenagers and all kids need atention and when they try to get attention from their parents and dont succeed they will almost go to any extreme to get the most attenton they can and that involves anything or anyone.  Thats one of the main reasons why kids and teenagers have depression is mostly because of bad parenting skills.  In my opinion It is important for everyone in the community to work together to send a unified message against bullying. Launch an awareness campaign to make the objectives known to the school, parents, and community members.